Remember Why You’re Doing It

“Be careful.” “Don’t go out by yourself.” “They’re known for _____.” “Never let your guard down.” 

I’ve been receiving warnings, safety precautions, and advice since the moment I announced I would be studying abroad at the University of the Western Cape in Cape Town, South Africa. I understand that those around me just want me to be safe and return back to the States safely. However, at one point I was not excited to take on a dream I’ve been dreaming about since I was 8-years-old. Panic attacks became a regular over the last few days and it started with a replay of all the warnings everyone instilled in me. I thought, “Is it really safe to leave the States to go to South Africa?” 

Then I realized, it is just as dangerous to STAY in the States as it is to leave. I had to tell myself that other’s projected fears cannot get in the way of my dreams and goals. I then realized I’m not the only one who goes through this pre-departure phase of worry. There are thousands, if not millions, of students who are in my shoes experiencing the same anxiety and worries. Unfortunately, it is so easy to believe that you are the only one and no one will be able to understand what it is you are going through.

Family and friends want the best for those who are studying abroad. It’s natural for them to say, “Be careful.” However, don’t let that be the only thing you keep in mind when you are packing your luggage and preparing to embark on a journey that will both enhance and develop you. Studying abroad is a once in a lifetime thing (yes it sounds cliche but it is true). For a few weeks, months, or a year you will be able to do something 100% out of your comfort zone and really get to know who YOU are. You will be challenged in every aspect, and what makes the challenges worth it are the results that will come out of the experience. Everyone has different reasons as to why they go abroad and everyone should remember their reason and place it at the forefront of every warning, safety precaution, and advice. At the end of the day, you are living your life. Your truth. No one will be in your shoes, your skin and your mind as you take on one of the most rewarding experiences of YOUR life. 

The anxiety will be a challenge but it will be temporary. The experiences will be worthwhile and they will be permanent.


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  • Life itself is a challenge. No matter where it is spent. Just take warnings as a jester of love and caring. I too was one who loved to travel, and enjoyed new endeavors. Having anxiety is a normal thing, but don’t let it control your mind. Reconize it, defuse it, then enjoy life. But be aware of your surroundings just to know where you are, going, and have been. Don’t forget to PRAY. You don’t have to have a hour long prayer, but remember to thank God often. It makes room for more blessings. Also (Lord keep me, help me and guide me Amen). Love you.😚 infinitely. Loving your Blog.

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